How To Play With A Vibrator

Although vibrators are most commonly associated with women, many men rhapsodize over how thrilling it feels to press a vibe against the penis or balls, and both sexes can use vibrators to explore full-body eroticism.
Get yourself in the mood. Read a dirty book, walk around the house naked, explore a favorite fantasy.
Monitor your arousal level and experiment with deep breathing to see how this affects your sexual response.

Try different positions. Lie on top of the vibrator, lie on your back with the vibrator on top of you, grasp it between your thighs. Run the vibrator over different parts of your body.

Try moving the vibrator around different parts of your genitals. If you’re a woman, you can press it against your clitoris, the clitoral hood, the mons, labia, vaginal opening and anus, or insert a vibrator into your vagina or anus.
If you’re a man, you can run the vibrator along the shaft of your penis, press it against the base, the scrotum, the perineum and around or into your anus. Try pressing below the glands on the bottom side of your penis. You can also press your penis against your abdomen with the vibrator to disseminate the vibrations.

Vary the pressure and speed. Experiment with a steady, direct pressure, alternate between a hard and light pressure, or try stopping and starting. Many vibrators come with more than one speed or a variable-speed control, so you can switch gears any time.

If the vibration is too intense, don’t place the vibrator directly against your genitals, but move it slightly, so the vibration is diffused. Or place your hand, clothing or a towel between the vibrator and your genitals to absorb some of the vibration.

Enhance your vibrator play by teasing yourself. Pay attention to your arousal level and turn your vibrator off intermittently.

Incorporate other types of stimulation—touch other parts of your body, use some other toys, watch a porn movie, or talk to yourself.
If the vibrator doesn’t make you come, don’t worry—just play with it for fun. It might make you come too fast or it might numb you out so you’re unable to come. Only by experimenting can you figure out how to maximize your own pleasure.

Tips:
When choosing a vibrator, keep in mind that in general, electric (plug-in) vibrators tend to be stronger than battery vibrators.
If you want to incorporate vibrators into partner sex, look for a style known as a vibrating cock ring. It fits around the penis but has a bullet vibrator attached so that during intercourse it bumps against the woman's clit.
Consider an anal vibrator if you're a fan of butt play.